Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism
I am pleased to announce the release of the third volume in The Understanding Autism Series: Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism.
Relationships are rarely difficult because people do not care. More often, they become strained because communication is misunderstood — tone is misread, intentions are misinterpreted, or expectations remain unspoken.
In this volume, I explore how communication actually works in everyday relationships and why it can feel especially complex for autistic adolescents and adults. Drawing from more than 30 years of clinical experience in neuropsychology and nearly 1,000 autism evaluations, this book translates research and diagnostic criteria into practical, real-life application.
Topics include:
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The distinction between task-focused and relationship-focused interaction
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Navigating compliments, gratitude, and reciprocity
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Understanding how shame and misinterpretation affect connection
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Practical strategies for conflict repair and relational resilience
This book is written for autistic adults, partners, parents, and professionals who want greater clarity — not scripts or masking, but understanding. When insight increases, relationships become less fragile and more grounded in mutual respect.
Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism builds on the foundation of the first two volumes and continues the goal of the series: to increase understanding across the lifespan.
I am deeply grateful to the individuals and families whose experiences have shaped this work, and I hope this book offers meaningful support to those navigating communication and connection in their own lives.
FREE Video CONTENT
Introduction to Autism Diagnosis in the Adult
This course highlights why autism is often misdiagnosed, the benefits and barriers to seeking a diagnosis as an adult, myths that may hinder someone from findings an evaluation, and tips for locating a qualified professional.
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Theory of Mind
Theory of Mind is our neurologic ability to understand that what is in another person's mind may be different than what is in our mind. This neurologic skill is often under-developed for those on the autism spectrum. Learn more about Theory of Mind and how to understand the impact of difficulties on communication and relationships.
AUTISM IN WOMEN: Variability in the Experience of ASD Characteristics Across Life Seasons
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